To go from the Caribbean to Sweden has been a long way and I’m not just talking about miles.
But I’ve learned that: “The most reliable way to predict the future is to create it”. So I’m creating mine.
Imagine you really want something, you see it everywhere and you find yourself thinking about it in the most random places, therefore you focus, make a plan and work for it.
Imagine then one morning you wake up and you find an email with the most exciting news of all, you are going to Sweden, you start running around the house still wearing your pijamas, because you’re happy and can’t hide it, so you pack your bags and go to that place that you’ve always dreamed of.
Now you open your eyes and there you’re, what once were other people’s pictures and snaps of their everyday routine, now it’s your new reality.
But let’s go back to the beginning. How did I end up in Sweden? It’s a question I’ve been asked so many times in the last 3 months. I come from Dominican Republic, a warm, sunny and colourful island in the Caribbean Sea.
My family is big and very supportive.
And I’ve always had an adventurous spirit, eager to discover the world, different cultures and people.
After I finished my Bachelor’s degree at my hometown University I started looking for Master programs abroad and scholarships.
A process that feels like hiking a very steep mountain: It demands strength and commitment, you have to reflect about what you really want and why. Also you have to be ready to ask for references, fill out applications, write personal statements, go to interviews and yet get rejected not because you’re not good enough but because maybe it was not your time. Instead of feeling defeated you have to go home, reflect on what you did, improve and try again.
During my search I came across this blog and one thing lead to another until in a blink of an eye I was applying to Lund University and the Swedish Institute Scholarship. Then it was all about waiting, and waiting and some more waiting.
My YES finally came and looked like this:
Can you imagine? The moment when your dreams are so close to come true, the moment when you finally made it to the top of the mountain and you get emotional, and happy and grateful all together.
It was time to start a new chapter of my life, this time in SWEDEN.
So I packed my bags and yes, my mom made sure I was not forgetting anything, because a trip from the Caribbean to Sweden is a long way to go.
And a little more…
It was hard to say goodbye to the only place I’ve called my home for so many years, but in order to start new things you have to be willing to leave others behind and just take what you can carry in your heart.
After almost 15 hours of airports and planes I was finally here. For the next 2 years the city of Helsingborg will be my new home.
I am living my dream and want to encourage you to do the same, don’t be afraid to fail, believe in yourself, take the chance and make it happen, because if is not you, who; if is not now, when?
Meanwhile let’s walk this journey together, an adventure of learning and exploring.